Can I stop my ex from seeing the children?

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My ex and I have separated and things ended badly. I do not want the children spending time with them right now. Am I allowed to just stop contact, and what does the law actually say about this?

Julian Murphy · Accepted Answer

It is important to understand that there is no automatic right for one parent to stop the other from seeing the children simply because the relationship ended badly. The court starts from the position that it is normally in a child's welfare to have a relationship with both parents, unless there is a genuine risk of harm. If you have real safeguarding concerns, for example domestic abuse or a risk to the children, that is different and you can apply for a child arrangements order and, in urgent cases, a prohibited steps order. But withholding contact without a good reason can count against you if the matter later goes to court. Before most family court applications you are expected to attend a mediation information meeting first. If there are immediate safety concerns you should seek advice quickly and, if needed, contact the police.

Maya Ortiz · Answer

In practical terms, the safest route is to be able to show that any decision you make is about the children's welfare and safety, not about the adult conflict. Courts look closely at which parent is supporting the child's relationship with the other. If you genuinely believe contact is unsafe, document your concerns, get advice, and consider a mediation information meeting or an urgent application rather than simply stopping contact on your own. If the concern is serious and immediate, welfare and safety come first. General guidance only, as the right answer depends heavily on the specific facts.

Can I stop my ex from seeing the children?

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